I call these patterns Love Modes.

And every woman has one. It's the automatic thing you do in relationships before your brain has caught up.

These aren't character flaws. They're survival strategies that made sense once. The problem is they're still running now.

This quiz tells you which one is yours.

• The Yearning Romantic who mistakes intensity for intimacy.
• The Overfunctioner who carries the whole relationship and quietly resents it.
• The Needless Woman who's been "seeing someone" for six months and still hasn't asked where it's going.
• The Self-Protector who hasn't dated in two years because she doesn't trust herself not to do it again.

These aren't character flaws. They're survival strategies that made sense once. The problem is they're still running now.

This quiz tells you which one is yours.